Neil Lee Barham

1978 - 2008
LocationBath
Age30 years
Cause of DeathRoad Traffic Collision
Date of Birth16/10/1978
Date of Death25/10/2008
Visitors747 since 08/11/2009
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Neil was a much loved person and could brighten up anyone's day. He is and always will be missed by all who knew him, and even some that didn't. RIP Neil xx

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God saw you getting tired
and a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you
and whispered "Come to Me".
A golden heart stopped beating,
hard working hands now rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best

Sharon McCorriston (Friend)

3 weeks ago

Thoughts of there smile is gone forever and there hand I cannot touch , I still have so many memories of the one i loved so much There memory is my keepsake with which I.ll never part, god has them in his keeping I have them in my heart Sadly missed but not forgotten.

Sharon McCorriston (Friend)

January 21, 2010

A pair of wings and a sparkling halo is a sign of an angle from up above an angle can pass in to heaven so open your wings and follow on up through the gates of heaven

Sharon McCorriston (Friend)

November 21, 2009

Don't Be Sad ... ...

A silver thread that keeps me near
To those I love and hold so dear,
Will someday slip, and I'll be free.
A soul afloat in a bounteous sea.

I'll also soar in maddening glee,
To places unseen by you and me.
Through darkest night, and brightest day,
I'll fly to a far and magical bay.

In ethereal havens of love and peace,
My God-given life will never cease.
The passing of time will be obsolete ...
Traveling the auras? No great feat.

Now don't be sad, and don’t you grieve!
Listen, and you’ll hear the sound of my songs
to you; filled with love abound.
I'll never leave you, don't you see?
I'll live with you, eternally!

Dawn Bartlett

November 9, 2009

neil i miss u xxx

i miss u babi all the laughs me nd u had ,all the texex we sent eachother all those times we sneaked off toghther in ur cherished car .i use to try nd work out ur stero system it was like a flat screen tv nd u use to say well wat song r u lookin 4 nd u would find it 4 me .rememmber i use to wear ur hoodies they was like a dress on me .i miss u every day cry 4 u aswell i dident have the chance to say good bye nd dat i loved u love u neil ,goodbye hunni or as u use to say chick to me i think of u every single day xxxxxxxxx

Sara Linton

November 8, 2009

Little Brother


You are gone but not forgotten although
we are worlds apart, you will be with us
forever, for live on within our hearts.

Our memories and photos are worth there
weight in gold but there are so many
stories of you that are still waiting
to be told.

No one can take away our memories for
we each have our own, from the time that
you were just a little boy to the time
that you were grown.

We all miss you so very much and hope
that you knew that you were loved.
We will see you again someday, in Heaven
up above.

Copyright ©2007 Peggy Ann Hardy

Joyce Tidy

November 8, 2009

To my brother...

A Poem for my Brother, Neil

I will never forget that Saturday morning,
When I opened the door with no fear and no warning
Only to see a police officer there,
With his white cap covering his hair.

He told me that you had been taken you see,
Whilst driving your cherished white Audi
A million thoughts ran through my mind,
Including how God could be so unkind?

How could he
Do this to you?
With your heart of Gold
And someone who everyone knew.

I was trying to call Dad on his phone
When I was told you weren’t alone.
Your passenger was Marc, he had said
He was hanging on but he’d hurt his head.

Marc was very poorly
And very ill
But no medicine could help him,
No jab, no pill.

We will never know what happened that night
Or why you couldn’t put up a fight.
To us you were always so strong,
Set in your ways which were never wrong.

Neil, we remember the good times we had,
And we are trying not to be sad.
But now you’re gone there’s such a big hole
And we find it hard to be consoled.

Your heart was always in the right place
And to a few, you were their saving grace.
We were getting on better more recently,
And I’ll never forget playing you and Marc on our PS3’s!

“You’re crap at that” you would say,
But at least we were having a laugh and a play!
Now of course, it won’t be the same,
Who’s going to help me cheat at my games?

We’ll never see you take a wife
Or have the children who would have completed your life.
You never wanted to hurt anyone,
Least of all take Marc from his girl and his sons.

If only you’d listened
Once and for all,
But.. .. You were you
And you knew it all!

We know that you and Marc are together again,
Causing chaos and havoc amongst the ladies in Heaven!
I wanted you to stay here with me,
But sadly that was not meant to be.


I hope that God knows what he’s let himself in for
When you and Marc knock at his door!
Maybe he will send you both back
Thinking to himself “bloomin’ hell, f**k that!” (sorry!!)

We will never ever get over our loss.
Your stuff in your room you left in the box.
We hope that you will always be near,
And that our thoughts you will hear.

Never again will I feel your touch,
I never thought I could miss you so much!
I only can hope that you would know,
Just how much I love you so.

I will always be thinking about you both up there together, messing around and chatting up the angels!! Be good and be happy boys, I love you xxxxx

Paula Barham (Sister)

November 8, 2009
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